Anonymous said: Hi this year has been the best year if my life it was amazing but before i was suffering from depression self harm and now i'm starting university, i'm moving to paris and i'm soo scared new life with people i don't know and everything. the main reason of my depression was that i didn't have friends before, i'm scared like if no one want to be my friend what will i do.. I really don't want to come back to the old me i'm loving my life now and i don't want it to change
Consider university as a big place with many, many people just as lost as you. It’s a fresh start. Most of these people don’t know anyone either. I know it’s awfully scary, I’ve been there, but you’ll meet sooo many people, don’t doubt that. Some will be just random people you say hello to when you see them in the morning but with some others, you’ll get an amazing connection, you’ll realize how many similarities you share and you wonder where they were all this time. I wish you the best hun, xx
Anonymous said: It's my third year of college. I was pretty excited to go back to work the first two years but after my amazing internship this summer everthing seems pointless and boring. I've only been back for two days but I'm crying every night. Classes seems boring, too much work, I'm fed up with some people. I'm a very good student, I have to cope with it but I feel like I'm wasting my time. I've been single forever and I won't meet someone spending all my time studying. I need love not homeworks :(
I am really punctilious when it comes to my studies, and if you’re just like me, I know how much time you spend studying and how you feel like you’re missing out on college life. I think that sometimes, we can just forget about our responsabilites and have fun. I’m sure you’ll manage to get 1 (or even 2) days off in the week to go out with your friends. Search on Facebook what kind of events are organized in your city. You’ll go out with your friends, have fun, maybe get a little tipsy, and meet new people ! :) x
Anonymous said: Do you ever have that mood where you just wanna curl up in a little ball and shut off the world? If so what do you do to make yourself feel 'more happy'?
Oh god, yes I do ! For the past year, when I was feeling like this, I could always see my boyfriend, inviting him over just to cuddle on my bed for hours. When everyone else was annoying me, he was the only one I wanted to see. But now that he is leaving, moving abroad, I really dont know. But I know I will be in this “mood” very often because I will miss him too much. I will have to figure something out. Maybe preparing myself a cup of tea, laying on my bed, listening to calm music will soothe me (us) a little.
Anonymous said: How do you deal with faillure?
I focus all my time and energy on something else such as my studies, because I dont want to spend all that time whining on what happened. Basically, I need to keep myself busy with something because otherwise I would over analyze everything and it is never a good idea.